Self acceptance is the path to liberty.

For a long time -- almost my entire life, I have never truly felt like people were seeing me for who I actually am. The truth is I was not seeing my own self for who I was/am. Of course we all “code switch”. It’s true that our family members may never see some sides of us but basic things like gender, sexuality, or the music we like should at least be positively acknowledged by the people we love and trust most. It's bullshit. Spirit wants you to keep moving forward and you’re bound to meet people who will accept you for you.

We have the ability to choose our own families. Sadly, blood family may try to pity you but trust me it will never matter. My own family had me beyond confused about who I was and what my “values and morals” were but fuck that. The power of choosing yourself is something that will make others jealous because they do not have the will or ability to do so for themselves. Denying your identity is detrimental to your mental, emotional, physical... etc health. Choose you. If you’re worried about your family cutting you off, start a gofundme, seek shelter, reach out to those you trust, or email me so I can assist you. Your spirit guides are also there for you call on them in a prayer or reach out to whomever you believe in.

It is easier said than done. Healing is lifelong but staying stagnant is unhealthy. Everyone talks about manifestation in a positive way but manifestation REQUIRES sacrifices. You have to give up your darkest and unhealthy ways in order to match the vibrations of your desires. If you deny your true self you will be stuck in a low vibration unable to see or maintain blessings.

Pick yourself up. You must do the work or else you will be living in a fantasy. Start healing then manifestations will come without any work. Literally. Overthinking is normal but it can be harmful to your mental health. Reach out to others for assistance if you are experiencing obsessive thoughts. I would also like to mention that it is important to respect others, so if you plan to reach out to someone ask them first if they’re able to assist you. Ex: “Hey ___ I am having a bad day, are you able to talk with me about it?” Simple as that.

I can do a section on manifestation if y’all would like that please lmk on instagram @divinegoons.